Amanda Boyce stumbled across Sunil Rajput’s Instagram profile by accident.

Sitting in her home in Brisbane, Australia, Amanda was absentmindedly scrolling social media. As she flicked through Instagram stories — one after the other, snapshots of different people’s lives popping up on her phone screen — she suddenly found herself looking at Sunil for the first time.

An account Amanda followed had shared one of Sunil’s posts to their Instagram story. Amanda clicked through and the photo — of Sunil smiling at the camera — enlarged on her phone.

“Wow, he’s good looking,” she thought. Then she scrolled down his page — posts about fitness, travel, his life in India. He seems interesting, Amanda thought.

Without overthinking it, Amanda hit follow.

It was early 2018. Amanda, then 27, was feeling a little disillusioned and unsatisfied with her everyday life in Australia.

“I had gone through some traumatic situations in the years prior, and I was just feeling a bit lost in my life in Brisbane,” Amanda tells CNN Travel today.

“I had a full-time job, but I didn’t have my own home, any kids, no pets. I didn’t really have a purpose, so I found myself just like scrolling Instagram a lot, and then I found Sunil’s page…and really didn’t know what I was expecting, honestly.”

Amanda started liking Sunil’s posts whenever they popped up on her feed. She almost always looked at his stories. She enjoyed seeing snippets of Sunil’s life – flashes of him going out with friends, cooking, working out.

“And then one day, he just randomly messaged me,” she recalls.

Amanda and Sunil started chatting, messaging back and forth on Instagram, introducing themselves, talking a little about their lives.

And then Sunil suggested they chat on the phone. It was early evening in India, a little later into the night in Brisbane, Australia.

Amanda was a little apprehensive at first, but then she figured, if it was awkward, or Sunil wasn’t who he said he was, she’d just hang up.

But as soon as Sunil’s voice answered the call, Amanda felt “really comfortable and safe.”

The two strangers talked for hours, sharing details about their lives, their past relationships, their hopes and dreams.

“It felt really nice to connect and talk to someone so openly about my whole life,” says Amanda.

“But then the next day, I panicked and I thought, ‘I don’t know why I’m investing my time in someone that lives 10,000 kilometres away.’ I felt like I made a mistake about being too open with someone I didn’t really know.”

Amanda felt embarrassed — almost guilty.

“So I kind of ghosted him,” she says. “He kept trying to message and check in with me, but I didn’t really reply.”

A spontaneous trip

Amanda tried to put Sunil out of her mind. But their conversation had sparked an idea. Amanda had always wanted to visit India and a good friend of hers had recently moved there.

“I decided I wanted to book a trip to come to India and meet my friend,” she recalls. “So I booked my flights.”

Amanda and Sunil felt instantly at ease with each other when they met in person for the first time. (Courtesy Amanda Boyce via CNN Newsource)

By coincidence, Amanda’s friend lived in the same city as Sunil — Chandigarh, in northern India.

But Amanda wasn’t going in the hope of bumping into Sunil. Chandigarh’s pretty big, with a population spanning around 1.1 million in 2018.

“I just had this calling to come to India,” says Amanda. “I wanted to do a bit of soul searching. A bit of ‘Eat, Pray, Love,’ if you will.”

Amanda arrived in Chandigarh in the spring of 2018. She started posting Instagram updates — photos of meals out, views, snapshots posing with her friend.

And then she got a message:

“Wait, you’re in my city?” wrote Sunil.

Amanda didn’t reply right away.

“I kind of brushed it off and thought, ‘Oh, I’m not going to have time to meet him. I’m just here to meet friends,’” recalls Amanda.

But then, towards the end of the visit, Amanda’s friend unexpectedly had to head out of town. Suddenly with time to kill, Amanda figured it might be worth contacting Sunil — they’d got on so well on the phone, after all.

Now she was in India, the distance didn’t feel so daunting. And Sunil seemed to have forgiven Amanda for the temporary ghosting.

So Amanda suggested the two of them meet for lunch.

“I wanted to meet in a public place, because I was meeting someone from the internet in a foreign country where I couldn’t speak the language,” she says.

Amanda was also vague about where she was staying — and about the fact her friend was now out of town. She was conscious that Sunil was essentially a stranger.

But as soon as Amanda saw Sunil in person, her fears were calmed.

“I just had this warm, comfortable, safe feeling,” she says. “And it was all a bit exciting as well.”

Sunil’s perspective

In 2018, Sunil Rajput was a twenty something living in Chandigarh, working in the liquor industry and spending most of his free time in the gym or travelling.

He was single and not consciously looking for a relationship. But when Amanda arrived in his life out of the blue, Sunil was instantly intrigued.

He vividly remembers the first moment her name popped up on his screen, his phone notifying him he had a new follower.

“I thought, ‘Wow, she’s pretty,’” Sunil tells CNN Travel today. “We started texting, and then we had the long conversation on the call. We shared a lot — sensitive conversation, our normal lives, romantic stuff, everything. We really opened up.”

Then, radio silence.

“I was like, ‘What’s happening? She’s not talking to me anymore.’ And then, all of a sudden, I’m seeing her on Instagram in India, and I felt like, ‘Why didn’t she tell me?’”

When Sunil realized Amanda was in his city, he debated whether to get back in touch.

“Should I let my ego down?” he wondered.

Sunil hesitated, but he kept thinking back over their phone conversation. The way they’d connected on such a deep level. It felt like something worth exploring. And he realized that he was “actually looking for love, stability.”

So, Sunil dropped Amanda a message. And when Amanda replied, suggesting meeting up for lunch, Sunil decided he wanted to “do something special for her.”

He suggested that — if Amanda was comfortable — he’d make her lunch at his apartment. Amanda didn’t say no, but suggested they meet in a public space first.

When Sunil saw Amanda in person, he was struck by how surreal the moment was. Externally, he tried to play it cool, but he recalls his heart beating fast as she approached.

“I was talking to this person, never expecting I’d meet her, now she’s standing in front of me,” he says. “My emotions were all over the place. Deep down, I was crying with happiness that she was here. But I was trying to act low-key.”

Amanda agreed to go to Sunil’s home for lunch, and he was excited to have the opportunity to demonstrate his cooking skills.

“I made Amanda some chicken curry, Indian style,” he says. “We had a nice lunch and spent a good time, we talked a lot.”

“I was really impressed by the effort he went to on our first meet-up/date,” says Amanda. “He picked me up, cooked me lunch, took me to the local temple which is famous in his area and then went out for drinks. He was very respectful and dropped me back to my hotel as soon as I was ready.”

Amanda and Sunil parted that night excited to potentially meet again.

A couple days later, they went out together for a second time.

“We drank, danced a lot, and were really comfortable together,” says Sunil.

For Amanda, it was that evening that made her start to seriously consider, “What is this? Could this be it? What if this is what I’ve been looking for?”

Earlier that year, Amanda’s therapist had encouraged her to write all the traits and qualities she was looking for in a partner on a whiteboard.

In Chandigarh, Amanda kept getting flashbacks to the whiteboard and her list, which included values like family, fitness, food, respect for others, respecting boundaries, and communication.

“Sunil basically ticked all of the qualities,” says Amanda. “It was almost like I’d manifested the whole situation.”

As for Sunil, he was pretty swept away by Amanda, too.

“I was ready to start something,” he says. “I wanted to see her again. But I didn’t know if it could actually happen. I didn’t know if I’d ever go to Australia or anything.”

Sunil decided to just ensure he and Amanda created “the best memories” while she was in India.

“And I figured if it was meant to be, somehow we’ll meet again,” he says.

Staying in touch

Amanda returned to Australia, but she and Sunil stayed in touch. More long phone conversations followed, and regular messages back and forth.

Sunil and Amanda, pictured here at a friend’s wedding earlier this year, are looking towards the future and excited for a life together. (Courtesy Amanda Boyce via CNN Newsource)

“We were talking every day,” Amanda recalls. “And then Sunil said, ‘I want to get to know you a bit better. Do you want to come back to India?’ So I booked flights for June, about two months after my first trip.”

Amanda and Sunil started counting down the days — but when Amanda boarded her flight, the nerves hit and she found herself a little apprehensive.

“I did start to panic a little bit. I thought to myself, ‘What happens if I get there and my feelings have changed?’” recalls Amanda.

“But then I walked out at the airport and saw him standing there. It was summer, 40 degrees (over 100 degrees Fahrenheit) in the middle of Delhi. But Sunil was holding roses and my favourite chocolate, which was melting in the heat. I walked out and saw him and I thought, ‘No, this is the right decision.’”

“It felt really special,” says Sunil of the moment he saw Amanda again, at Indira Gandhi International Airport. “The idea that somebody came all the way from a different country, to see me…”

This time around, Sunil took time off work and “took Amanda everywhere.” He wanted to impress her, win her over, spend as much time with her as he could.

“I took her to mountains, to the Himalayas to go trekking, on road trips, singing songs in the car for her, and karaoke sessions,” he recalls. “It was really memorable. I remember thinking, ‘If this doesn’t work out, I don’t know if I’ll ever put this much effort into something with anybody else.’”

One evening, sitting close to Sunil at a rooftop bar surveying the bustling city below, Amanda told Sunil she wanted to move to India.

“I said I wanted to move in 12 months’ time — that I knew that’s where I wanted to be,” Amanda recalls. “It was a drunken night. But I meant it. We started talking about our future and what we wanted.”

That night, Amanda and Sunil agreed marriage was important to them, that they wanted to start a new chapter of their life together.

“I was really happy,” says Sunil. “But also a little panicked. I was used to living life alone, enjoying my freedom and everything.”

He was also concerned Amanda would change her mind about living in India. But the next day, when the alcohol haze had worn off, Amanda told Sunil she was sincere about what she’d said. And Sunil found himself thinking that “life would be better if she was here all the time.”

He even gave her a ring — it didn’t have to be an engagement ring, he said, if Amanda wasn’t ready yet. But it was a promise.

“A promise that we are always going to be together,” says Sunil today.

This time, when Amanda returned to Australia, she promised she’d return.

And back in Brisbane, Amanda told her friends and her mother she’d met someone, and she was going to move to India to be with him.

There were more than a few raised eyebrows — many of her loved ones worried things had moved too quickly, that Amanda didn’t really know Sunil.

And Amanda was greeted with more concern when, in August 2018, she and Sunil got engaged on vacation in Thailand.

“It was a fairly quick engagement,” admits Amanda. “I did have a few people question if I was making the right choice, if I was rushing into things.”

Amanda understood their concerns, but she and Sunil were confident in their decision-making, and in their commitment to each other. And Sunil offered to speak to Amanda’s mother on the phone, to reassure her and get to know her a little from afar.

“My mom asked him all the different questions — what were his intentions and things like that,” says Amanda. “And afterwards, she felt really comfortable, she was fine.”

“My parents were really worried too,” admits Sunil. “We are really into religion and culture and they questioned, ‘How are you going to do it with a person from a different country, different culture and everything?’”

But Sunil told them he knew Amanda was the right person for him.

“And they trusted me,” Sunil says. “I’ve always been really independent.”

In Thailand, Sunil proposed to Amanda while they were on a night river cruise in Bangkok. Beforehand, he’d worried about how to actually go about it.

“In my culture, we don’t do this sitting on a knee proposing thing,” Sunil explains. “And with the boat, I thought I had to do a romantic, ‘Titanic’ type thing.”

But Sunil put his nerves to one side, and gave Amanda the ring. She said yes. They kissed. Another passenger snapped a few surreptitious photos, which she later passed on to the couple.

“It was an amazing night under the sky and on the water. It was beautiful, and we spent a great time in Thailand,” says Sunil. “We did all the adventurous stuff together. We went to multiple bars and clubs and some days we were chilling next to the beach. Explored markets, shopping and saw so many temples.”

A new chapter together

Following the engagement, Amanda and Sunil decided they would wait a year before Amanda moved to India permanently.

This was what she’d suggested at the rooftop bar, after all — and it allowed a bit of time for the couple to continue to get to know each other.

“I did have a tendency to make decisions in the moment and not really think,” says Amanda. “So I thought if I move to India after a year, then it’ll give me time to make sure this is exactly what I want.”

In the meantime, Amanda and Sunil navigated a long distance relationship, meeting in person when they could.

“The long distance was really tough,” says Amanda. “Trying to find ways to stay connected that wasn’t repetitive.”

And when they were apart, Sunil often worried Amanda would change her mind.

“It’s a big decision, moving your entire life to a different country,” he says. “I thought she would one day wake up and think, ‘Maybe I won’t.’”

But by the following summer, Amanda was preparing to leave Australia, to relocate permanently. She gave in her notice at the insurance company where she worked.

“I was quitting my job. I had to sell all my belongings. I was leaving my family behind,” she recalls.

“And then in August 2019, I moved to India, to Chandigarh, to Sunil’s apartment — the one I visited on that first trip when he cooked me lunch.”

“My apartment turned into a proper home,” says Sunil.

The first several weeks together in India were a “honeymoon period,” as Amanda puts it.

“But when I realized that it wasn’t a holiday, that I had moved there, it was harder,” she admits. “Not the relationship, but I couldn’t speak the language, I didn’t have any friends.”

Amanda’s friend who lived in Chandigarh had since moved to Canada. Amanda knew no one, other than Sunil.

He reassured Amanda she would soon settle. “It’s only been two months,” he pointed out.

The couple decided to get a dog, whose presence comforted Amanda. Looking after the dog brought Amanda and Sunil even closer together.

And then, a few months after Amanda moved to India, she and Sunil got married. This was a special weekend for many reasons, not least of which because Amanda and Sunil’s families got to meet for the first time.

“My parents, my sister and her partner, and my brother and his partner, they all came over for two weeks, and I had a couple of friends come over too,” says Amanda. “For me it was the happiest time of my life. I remember sitting on stage at one of my ceremonies, getting my mehndi applied on my hands and feet and watching Sunil’s family encouraging my family to dance and enjoy themselves.”

The two families had a language barrier — but their shared happiness was universal.

“Sunil’s parents don’t speak any English, my family don’t know any Hindi, yet language didn’t matter,” says Amanda. “Actions, hand gestures and emotions were all that was needed and when my family said goodbye to Sunil’s family every single person was crying.”

The wedding weekend included four different ceremonies and celebrations – from cocktail parties to prayer ceremonies. Amanda loved wearing her gold and red wedding dress.

Here’s Amanda and Sunil on their wedding evening in November 2019. (Courtesy Amanda Boyce via CNN Newsource)

“She looked amazing,” says Sunil. “Like she came out of the sky or something. It was a really unbelievable experience. I was really stressed out in the lead up. But I had a big fat smile on my face that day. I was so happy.”

In time, the couple became especially grateful for this day spent with family and loved ones. Only a few months after Amanda and Sunil’s wedding, the coronavirus pandemic shut down international travel and visiting Australia was out of the question.

2020 was characterized by a “big unknown feeling,” as Amanda puts it. And then, in 2021, Covid cases skyrocketed in India.

“It was scary,” says Amanda. “The pandemic was really, really bad here.”

Amid this fear and uncertainty, Amanda and Sunil hunkered down with each other and their dog.

“It definitely helped having each other, being close,” says Amanda. “That’s also when I learned how to cook Indian food.”

Once the pandemic waned, the two adopted a second dog. And once Amanda and Sunil were able to travel and go out more, life became more stable.

Sunil suggests going through the pandemic in the immediate aftermath of their wedding “made us a really different and a better version of ourselves.”

“We learned to love, we learned to live, we learned how to sacrifice and have patience and how to create a family,” he says.

‘Life is always giving you chances’

Today, Amanda and Sunil are still living in Chandigarh – now in a slightly larger apartment, and now with three dogs in tow.

“I really feel like this is home,” says Amanda. “I feel really settled. And I feel really happy to be here, and very satisfied with how everything’s turned out. We’re finally able to travel and do things, we’re both doing really well in our own businesses – I think we live a really nice, comfortable, happy life.”

Amanda now runs a teaching business called “Aussie English with Amanda.” As well as teaching frequent classes, she has also produced two online courses — one on Australian English and the other focusing on Aussie slang. She also posts work updates on her Instagram account.

Sunil says it’s been inspiring to watch Amanda develop her business, and he values her input in his career too, describing how they “help each other a lot.”

“Sunil has never stopped encouraging me from working and growing,” says Amanda. “When I started developing my online course and I was so busy that I was even forgetting to eat, he would cook me dinner and bring it to me even at 10 p.m.”

When they’re not focusing on their jobs, Amanda and Sunil enjoy working out together and exploring the beautiful nature on their doorstep in northern India.

“The gym and training is something that we bonded over early, in the beginning. We still go to the gym together,” says Amanda. “And we like doing outdoor activities, travelling – we’re very close to the Himalayan Mountains, just a few hours away. So we like to go up there and do the hikes through the mountains.”

On more chilled weekends, Amanda and Sunil take turns taking each other to favourite coffee shops or restaurants. They really enjoy “treating each other,” as Sunil puts it.

In the future, the couple hopes to own a vacation home in Australia. They’d love to have children and travel the world as a family.

But for now, they’re focused on enjoying their present happiness — and occasionally reflecting on how they got here.

“It honestly still feels so unbelievable at times,” says Amanda, of their unlikely Instagram-based love story. “I just followed this complete stranger because he was good looking.”

Amanda never imagined she’d be happily married to Sunil, but she’s so glad that’s how life panned out.

“It’s so crazy to think that it was six-and-a-half years ago that we connected, and I came for that first trip, and now we’re here.”

“You look back and it still feels like you’re surprised, you get goosebumps and everything, how it happened,” agrees Sunil. “It’s a movie story for me.”

For Sunil and Amanda, the message of the story is “life is always giving you chances out there. You just have to accept them,” as Sunil puts it.

“I feel like sometimes we are too scared — always protecting our heart because of whatever we’ve gone through in our past, and because of that, sometimes we end up losing out on the great things,” he says.

“My message is simple: keep your heart open. No matter what you’re going through, you’re going to bump into something really great.

“And if it’s not great, it means you still need more time to learn from it, and then you become stronger, and someday, sooner or later, you’re going to bump into something really nice, and it will change everything, and it will make everything work out.”