Tuesday, June 4 Mercury, and Jupiter in Gemini will align bringing in some positive news and developments into your romantic life. Jupiter is the luckiest planet in the zodiac, and as it merges with the energy of Mercury, you can expect to hear good news, receive incredible offers, or even see positive developments in your romantic life. The energy of Mercury and Jupiter is about finally feeling as if you’ve made it out of a rough patch and now can simply bask in the love you’ve always wanted.
While you’ve been focusing on speaking from the heart, you can’t hold back when it comes to putting an offer on the table or saying yes to one that’s extended to you. You can spend time debating the merits of the perfect timing or you can simply accept this incredible offer of love coming your way.
Your relationship should be one of the most valuable aspects of your life. Even if you are working to find success and fulfillment in all areas, your relationship should still provide something special and unique. When you can honor the importance of your relationship, you can also ensure you are fully investing your energy into what matters most.
Don’t be afraid to change your mind about love or when you’d like to have a certain relationship. Just because you may have thought all you wanted was something casual doesn’t mean you are locked into that. If your feelings have grown, and you see more possibility in your connection, it’s also okay to say that.
Secrets are never an ingredient to a healthy relationship. Not that you always mean to keep feelings or needs to yourself, but it can be hard to open up or even feel like it’s the right time to. But you have something on your mind that you can’t keep to yourself anymore, and being able to say it to your partner is exactly what provides the clarity you’re looking for.
It might be time for you to stop taking love as seriously as you have in the past. You can feel confident and be happy in the moment without knowing where it will all lead. This doesn’t mean you can’t have hope, but it’s also okay to simply hold space to see what the meaning of a particular connection is in your life — that way you will always know whether a relationship is truly meant to be (or not).
Take time to create the relationship you really want. As tempting as it is to go on autopilot or excuse busy schedules and lives, if that keeps happening, the quality time or love you want will also indefinitely be postponed. Whatever you want to grow you also need to tend to, so take the time to create that positive and deep connection you desire with your partner.
You and your partner might need a change of scenery to reestablish your connection or feel more confident about the relationship. While you might have plans for far-off travels, you don’t have to wait until then to infuse new energy into your connection. Try doing something different today, even if it’s just a new place for dinner, to help open the door for both of you to finally express what you’ve been thinking about.
You can’t just hope your partner knows what you want. You have to actually tell them. As much as you are learning to embrace the changes happening in your life, you might find yourself processing feelings and situations more quickly. If you need time, ask for it — but also ensure that you’re not hiding any feelings simply because you hope your partner is a mind reader.
You need to be very clear about what you want from love and who you want to share it with. Just because it might appear the grass is always greener elsewhere doesn’t mean it always is. You tend to want to escape challenging relationship phases with other distractions, but that won’t actually help you achieve what you want. Try to get clear with yourself, so no one’s heart (especially yours) gets hurt in the process.
As you’ve grown, you’ve realized that what you need from love has changed. It’s not just about the life you create together or even what you are able to accomplish. Instead, you’ve been craving a deeper, more fulfilling connection where it feels like you are truly sharing your souls. Although you’re still learning your way around vulnerability, there is no such thing as perfection when it comes to sharing your feelings, so there is no reason not to open up to your partner.
Focus on how to bring more joy to your life and your relationship regardless of what comes to mind, whether it’s cutting back on overtime or even planning more quality time together. It’s important to focus on how you want to feel rather than just how it might look, as this will ensure that you are genuinely building a connection that reflects what you want for yourself.
It can always be a bit scary to approach taking your relationship to the next level, but it’s part of self-growth when you allow yourself to bring up tougher topics. Being honest with yourself and your partner allows you to act from a place of transparency, and in this case, your partner does feel the same as you. You can’t act thinking you know what your partner wants unless you actually open the space to learn.
Aria Gmitter, M.S, M.F.A., is YourTango’s Senior Editor of Horoscopes and Spirituality. She studies with the Midwestern School of Astrology and is a member of the South Florida Astrological Association.